tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post7670345239770814343..comments2023-08-03T06:26:45.186-04:00Comments on Terroni: Studying, fuming, and preparing for a solo flightTerronihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11737715891767920516noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-45377594158765982492007-05-01T08:46:00.000-04:002007-05-01T08:46:00.000-04:00Thanks for the answer!The divorce should be over b...Thanks for the answer!<BR/><BR/>The divorce should be over by the time you read this. I was with you, mentally. I hope it went better than expected and that it's the last time you'll ever have to see your EX.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09605292489556502765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-92028826283508212122007-04-30T12:26:00.000-04:002007-04-30T12:26:00.000-04:00You said a nice thing about my comment on Proxima'...You said a nice thing about my comment on Proxima's blog, so I had to come over and check out yours. And I see we are both in the process of a divorce, although reading through this makes me extremely thankful that I am going through an amicable divorce. As for family, it is a little surprising to me how non-helpful family and friends can be in times of divorce. Even ones who say they are behind you. (I've done a few posts on this topic in the past couple of months myself!) I will hold you in my thoughts tomorrow morning, and hope you walk out of court feeling lighter.CShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12136201152682543365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-1204014427597692602007-04-29T10:25:00.000-04:002007-04-29T10:25:00.000-04:00Wow Terroni. You thanks us all for reading--I than...Wow Terroni. You thanks us all for reading--I thank you for sharing so openly. I'll be thinking of you on Tuesday--you won't really be alone.Scouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06209638721810105979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-1534081237429251582007-04-28T23:23:00.000-04:002007-04-28T23:23:00.000-04:00Thank you all so very much for these amazing words...Thank you all so very much for these amazing words. You are so generous and kind. I am incredibly lucky to have you all here.<BR/><BR/>Thank you, thank you, thank you.<BR/>TerroniTerronihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11737715891767920516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-86191306145945348862007-04-28T19:52:00.000-04:002007-04-28T19:52:00.000-04:00Visualize me stepping out from behind a pillar and...Visualize me stepping out from behind a pillar and throwing a big pie in his mug right after the big showdown. <BR/><BR/>And I am SO glad that you saved all those e-mails, kiddo. I had a stalker once, and I found that saving those e-mails comes in handy if you have to go to the police. They read the ones she sent me (which were chock full of sickening expletives and veiled threats) and they sat right up and took notice. <BR/><BR/>So..yes..SAVE EVERYHING USEFUL. <BR/><BR/>And, sweetie...it is all gonna be fine. Maybe you should call your family and ask them to come? Maybe they don't realize that you need them? <BR/><BR/>In a week, this will all be in the past. One foot in front of the other!<BR/><BR/>And, I think it sucks that your roomie can't go with you when it sounds like she is sensational and a true friend. But, I got the feeling that he is a little threatened by her? So, yeah...best to let it pass. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there. You will be fine. You will be fine. You will be fine.Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05049511202014141182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-64994205000744365092007-04-28T19:00:00.000-04:002007-04-28T19:00:00.000-04:00Ah, Terroni, this all sounds so very painful. But...Ah, Terroni, this all sounds so very painful. But, you are strong and can do this and then - this too will pass. Remember that. There are brighter days ahead of you, and you are worth every bright light that leads your way.<BR/><BR/><I>I'll be thinking about you, sending warm thoughts on Tuesday.</I><BR/>.Deb Hellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07731722558932332629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-74145531501267000332007-04-28T16:08:00.000-04:002007-04-28T16:08:00.000-04:00If you want me to, I'll fly up Tuesday. (Down? I h...If you want me to, I'll fly up Tuesday. (Down? I have no idea where you live.) I have a million frequent flier miles just begging to be used. *hug* I'll be thinking of you.Susanleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14864319996180586857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-15537914748827672232007-04-28T14:18:00.000-04:002007-04-28T14:18:00.000-04:00Well Terroni - that's a whole lot of advice, poetr...Well Terroni - that's a whole lot of advice, poetry and lyrics there. None for me my dear except to say thank God you're getting away from him. Going solo will perhaps give you a greater boost than having any of your family there. On the other hand, maybe they are just waiting to be asked? I've never been happier than I am with my THIRD husband. Don't ever, ever give up and good luck with your exam little one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-70760232941664367262007-04-28T13:39:00.000-04:002007-04-28T13:39:00.000-04:00seeing as melanie gave you a good quote, I'll poin...seeing as melanie gave you a good quote, I'll point you to a great song that should be your anthem for tuesday.<BR/><BR/>it is called "Prince Charming," and it is by a band called Jim's Big Ego. The URL to the song where you can play it online is: <BR/>http://bigego.com/index.php?page=songs&display=322&category=noplace_like_nowhere<BR/><BR/>and I think you should go play it now. <BR/><BR/>and here's the song: <BR/><BR/>I think you better cut all that hair off, throw it out the window<BR/>climb down from that tower<BR/>flip the wicked witch the finger<BR/>ain't no use to wait for him to get you, he's out chasing his own demons<BR/>not like you can really blame him<BR/>you've got demons of your own<BR/><BR/>and I hate to be the one to tell you, cause it don't seem so romantic<BR/>but that's the way it really goes<BR/>and now you know<BR/><BR/>you're gonna have to be your own prince charming<BR/>gonna have to ride your own stallion<BR/>gonna have to find your own castle<BR/>gonna have to raise your own sail<BR/>and there's gonna be a happy ending<BR/>but that's only the beginning<BR/>this ain't no fairy tale<BR/>it's true, it's real, it's you<BR/><BR/>Cinderella stepped out of her glass slippers, threw down that new apron<BR/>put on a pair of old Doc Martens<BR/>and stomped right out the door<BR/>the prince was still chewing on his bacon as he hit the open road<BR/>said life is full enough of disappointment<BR/>to go kissing any toad<BR/><BR/>and somewhere a band was playing<BR/>"to-ra-loo-ra-loo-ra"<BR/>you go out and see the world girl<BR/>have yourself a ball<BR/><BR/>you're gonna have to be your own prince charming<BR/>gonna have to ride your own stallion<BR/>gonna have to find your own castle<BR/>gonna have to raise your own sail<BR/>and there's gonna be a happy ending<BR/>but that's only the beginning<BR/>this ain't no fairy tale<BR/><BR/>you're gonna have to be your own prince charming<BR/>gonna have to ride your own stallion<BR/>gonna have to find your own castle<BR/>gonna have to raise your own sword<BR/>and there's gonna be a happy ending<BR/>and there's gonna be a happy ending<BR/>and there's gonna be a happy ending<BR/>it's true, it's real, it's youChristine G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17781551364340088590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-13594727881997195822007-04-28T12:14:00.000-04:002007-04-28T12:14:00.000-04:00(...which isn't to say "stick with the psycho", bu...(...which isn't to say "stick with the psycho", but to say, "don't give up on love. just on live with HIM.")Ms. Meanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15536346226067009688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-64050698418484600132007-04-28T12:12:00.000-04:002007-04-28T12:12:00.000-04:00A quote from my own personal Bible:"When love beck...A quote from my own personal Bible:<BR/><BR/>"When love beckons to you follow him,<BR/><BR/>Though his ways are hard and steep.<BR/><BR/>And when his wings enfold you yield to him,<BR/><BR/>Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him,<BR/><BR/>Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.<BR/><BR/>For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.<BR/><BR/>Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,<BR/><BR/>So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth. Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.<BR/><BR/>He threshes you to make you naked.<BR/><BR/>He sifts you to free you from your husks.<BR/><BR/>He grinds you to whiteness.<BR/><BR/>He kneads you until you are pliant;<BR/><BR/>And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.<BR/><BR/>All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.<BR/><BR/>But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,<BR/><BR/>Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,<BR/><BR/>Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. "<BR/><BR/>~~Khalil Gibran, "The Prophet"Ms. Meanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15536346226067009688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5337375229926186501.post-52175782622161661122007-04-28T09:16:00.000-04:002007-04-28T09:16:00.000-04:00good luck my deartough tough shitso much pain caus...good luck my dear<BR/>tough tough shit<BR/>so much pain caused by him<BR/>you can see it bleeding on the pages<BR/><BR/>i will be thinking about you<BR/>tuesday <BR/>a day that will work out fine<BR/>i just have a feelingryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12235496418514131965noreply@blogger.com